Too Much....

If you are wanting to be in a serious relationship and the other person is doing something that you do not approve of what should you do.....do you stay with the person and continue to fight through and try to get through to them to stop...do you give them an ultimatum like if you can stop that for one month than we can be together....what if they cant stop...how long to you stay with them trying to help them....when is it too much....A person cannot be help until they are ready and willing to be helped....you cannot sacrifice who you are or what you believe in....you certainly cant take the risk of this person doing bad things around your family....in my opinion if the person doesnt care enough about you to stop when you ask than it will never work out anyway....that just proves that you are more committed to the relationship than they are....one person cant make a relationship work...it has to be teamwork...both people have to be on the same page and both have to give and receive for it to work....if they are constantly lying or there is no trust than it is never going to work....trust and communication are the key...dont spend your whole life trying to get them to stop what they are doing or to change who they are....you are wasting your time because it wont work and plus it takes away that much time that you could of already found the right one for you that you dont have to try and get them to stop a bad habit or try to get them to change....keep your head up and stay strong.