Don't Judge so Quick.....

We as a society tend to judge people when we first see them....generally without ever even saying a word to them....we judge them on many different things....if they dont look or act a certain way we tend to write them off...we need to cut this crap out...you have no idea what someone that you just met is currently going through or all the shit they may have gone through within their entire lives...they could have gone through so much that you cant even begin to comprehend it....so before you just write them off because they dont seem to have the right style or they dont seem to have the same kind of attitude as you or they just act a bit differently....dont be so quick to judge them....what makes you better than them anyway....many times people go through so much bad shit that it actually makes them better and strong people...so they may even be better people than you....point is you have no idea about their past or even what kind of a person they are...they may be the best person you ever meet...dont be so quick to judge!

A New Fear.....

Even tho I am 28 years old I have always felt way younger because with the exception of work I didnt really have any other responsibilities...I was a bachelor for years....I came and went whenever without ever telling anyone...I did whatever I wanted...I drank constantly...pretty much acted like a teenager and this was the life I was accustomed too that I lived for the past 10 years....in August 2011 I met the most wonderful woman that I had ever met...she is so strong....intelligent...funny....caring and on top of that she loves me....so I married her :-)
we got married on 3-3-2012...So I feel myself starting to change, starting the "growing up" process...and now we are expecting a baby in September...an extremely scary but yet humbling thing...this is the first child for us both...so at least we are nervous/scared together....If any of you ever read my old blog than you know that I have always been afraid to bring a child into this world because of all the hatred that is in the world today....I just hope that I can keep my child safe and to where my child does not know a world full of hatred, torture, malice, killing, jealousy, greed, etc...So now starts the time for me to start fearing for the safety and correct upbringing of my child...that I am going to be good enough and strong enough to be able to raise my child and yet keep shielded from all of the evil in this world....this is a feeling that will never go away....I am always going to be curious and wondering if I am doing the best job that I can....and this to me is the scariest thing that I have yet to face....here's to HOPE!!